Hello men! I'm really new to this cyber-dating thing, but I never knew how difficult it is to meet new people once you reach a certain age! But i am looking forward to meeting some new people on a personal level instead of a professional one. What am I looking for in a partner? First off, make me laugh! I am laughing most of the time anyway, it helps if it follows something funny! Also, be confident! Don't be someone you are not just because you think that is what you thing I want, just be yourself! I have no intentions of putting on an act, so I would expect the same from you. I would also like someone who can work a crowd, so to speak. In my line of work, I am often called on to appear at social events, & I don't want to babysit anyone. Hopefully, you can feel comfortable meeting new people. I basically want someone who gets along well with all of the special people in my life, my brothers, family and friends. It is important to me as I'm sure it is for you, that you mesh well with them. They are all very important to me. Oh, and also, don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself, should the feeling strike! I find nothing more attractive in a partner than one who is secure enough with himself to put himself at risk in that way! I guess that is a good start, is that too much to ask? Well, a girl can dream can't she? How about you wake me up!:bye

My idea of a great first date isn't so much about where we go, but more to do with the connection that we make. I love to go to theatres, out for dinner or dine in (I am a great cook, that comes from years of helping my Italian mother in the kitchen ), I love movies, or even just talking at a cafe.