I consider myself a smart, fun, attractive person with a sarcastic and goofy sense of humor that is very often over the top, at times "disturbing", but cracks me up nonetheless. I'm a performer by nature, so I'm generally outgoing and mesh well with other outgoing people; However, I am also a 'thinker' who can, all too easily, retreat into my inner world, at times losing focus on what I need to get done. I am heavily into the mysteries of our existence, and human behavior & relationships.
I have a wonderful group of friends, and am always in search of more.
What I am looking for is someone who is equal parts attractive, smart, fun, caring, witty, driven, and interested in life and its meaning. This is no easy find, and regetably, I have settled for less in the past, much to my chagrin, I would prefer to connect with someone who doesn't run screaming at the idea of a relationship. If you think of a relationship as something that ties you down or prevents you from (the ever cliched)"living life to the fullest," we won't gel. But, if you think of a relationship as something that could potentially add richness and meaning to your life (at SOME point before we're old), we might have something to work with. I think it is important I state that my most prominent quality is intelligence. I am quite attracted to it as well. But being "typically male" doesn't allow for any "genius toads".
MY FAVORITE BOOKS, MOVIES, MUSIC, AND FOOD:
In no particular order, and only for starters:
books: Riverworld (series),most: Stephen King, John Steinbeck, Frank Herbert, Webster's New World Collegiate Dictionary.......... movies: Bladerunner, Green Mile, Pulp Fiction
television: **varies**
music: Melvins, Spiderworks, punk/speedmetal, blues, rock (except soft), rap, jazz
food: sushi, burgers, & pizza come to mind first, second & third
THE SIX THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUT: Full use of my body. Full use of my mind. My hearing. Great Music. Great Words. Places of beauty & awe.
I SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUT:
The Universe and how it works. Relationships between people and how they work. Relationships between Humans and non-humans. Cosmic justice. The enormity of reality.
What happens after we die, why we are here, etc... The order, the reason behind the hand that each of us are dealt. Karma: Sex: You.(not in any particular order.)

First date/burst grape. C'mon, I'm a heterosexual male. Unless it involves fecalphelia or smoking pole, you can count me in. Of course, our first date could coincide with a "Hemmed Up" show. That's my band, and yes, we are three bad malamba jambas.