Everyone puts the same crap here, does anyone read these?? I'm looking for the same thing everyone else is...my partner in crime.

I have blond hair & green eyes. I'm pretty fair complected naturally, but try my hardest to get sun! :~)

I like all of the things listed in my interests category. I'm really big into volunteering. I like working at "soup kitchens", doing food & life accessory drives & rebuilding/remodeling (I've done several camp grounds). I've been doing this for about five years, and I really love it. I love going to the beach, and you can hardly keep me out of the water when I'm there. I like to toss a ball or frisbee around or just play in the waves. I have a large family (I'm the oldest of eight), and we're very close. I cookout, spend time with friends, go to the zoo, movies, almost anything normal people do, but most of all, I love to enjoy the weather here!!

I don't have any kids yet, because I took health class AND paid attention.

I am over the bar scene...unless there's a good band playing. I can watch live music anytime!

I smoke cigarettes sometimes...never in my house, and most often when drinking. I'm a very clean smoker as, go figure - I hate the smell. :-) Weird, I know. I'm told I'm hilarious, I think I'm pretty witty. I work hard, and use my time off wisely, to have as much fun as possible!

I've had a couple of real winners contact me, so I'm going to be a little specific in what I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone who is educated and has a career. If you didn't finish school for whatever reason, please be intelligent. If you're unemployed due to the economy (lay-off), that's different. You should probably try to find gainful employment before dating though. Just a thought. I will not date a drug user. I'm not looking for games or a drinking buddy, I like to drink but not at the bar everyday and/or night. I also need a man with a sense of humor (witty=sexy)! I also like someone with hair, no offense to men who like to shave their heads, I just like hair. With this in mind, I like it neat. I don't want to date a member of an 80s metal band, above the shoulders or preferably above the ears works best for me. I don't mind if you're losing some of it though, after all we are getting up there, & that's natural - lol. I eat healthy and am a great cook, I do splurge occasionally though, mostly cuz it's fun. I do not find large men attractive. Good dental hygiene is a MUST. Men who are prejudice against race or sexuality need not contact me.

I am looking for a man, who wants to talk, text, then date...benefits later. If this is you, please send me an email.

You gotta actually be able to have a few conversations with me via IM, email or text before we meet, I don't run off to meet strangers!! I don't mean for 2 months, but I need to get to know you a little before we meet. All good things come to those who wait. ;-)