No picture? No response ...

I would like to say "thank you" to all the 29 and 30 somethings who have made contact with me. I do take care of myself. I'm 5'5" tall with blue eyes and weigh 125lbs. and yes, I get told all the time that I look 35 years old! It's very flattering but to be truthful, I'm looking for someone around my own age. I'm sorry!

I am a hopeless romantic. I'm not looking for someone to "take care" of me but you can spoil me if you like! :-) I'm looking for someone to be part of my life. Someone kind, respectful, gentle and loving (with a little "wild" mixed in). I've been alone for a long time. I'm looking for someone "genuine". Someone honest (I admire integrity and truth), no games, no drugs and no one on this website that is "married". Please understand that I won't have anything to do with you if you're married. It's just not my style. About the outdated pictures, it's not up to me to judge others, but I'm not a fan of guys portraying themselves as something they're not. Show me your "real" picture! Show me who you really are. We've all earned our laugh lines and crows feet! :-) And, please, if you are going to "view me from afar" all day and all night, please move on. I don't like games. I won't play games and that includes being a "friend with benefits". I am more than that. Feel free to write to me if you're interested in getting to know me ... I have a huge heart. I am an honest, friendly, genuine person. What you see is who "I" am. I'm down to earth and, ok, a little "quirky". I have lots of interests but mostly I love being outdoors. I'm looking for someone who is ready to move on with life. Someone who can't wait to tell me all about "their" day. And get cozy with me by my fireplace at night.

Does this sound like you?

On a first date? Something easy. Low pressure. Go to the movies, or to a High School football or soccer game, a Bill's or Sabre's game, or, maybe meet at a bar for a drink. I love to dance to a band called "7th Heaven" (and no, it's not a Christian band, it's a '70's Classic Rock Band (www.rock7thheaven.com). :) I love the water and have walked down the pier at Charlotte on a first date. Any one of these things would be fun and it gives you time to get to know each other without any pressure.