aayyy! I'm Elisha Most people call me Lisha and i pretty much keep it real. i'm content with my life, atleast as much as i can be..there is the occasional set backs, but that's how life goes. i have a select few good friends, that i thank god for. my family means the world to me. I like to chill and have a good time. i love music, more than anything. I'm a bit of a smartass, deal with it. All in all, i'm a pretty decent person. I treat others how i'd like to be treated, and i like to surround myself with the same type of people.
I always look for the best in people.
I push people away when i need them the most.
I try not too be judgemental.
Im not perfect and i dont try to be
?I'm as real as they come.
I don't do drama so i prefer you don't bring it to me.
Don't try to argue with me when i try to rationalize.
Silence is a more powerful message.
?I hate being lied to. It really pisses me off. # one excuse for chronic liars is how they don’t tell the truth because according to them, they don’t know how you will react when you find out the truth and because they are afraid to hurt you. Fair enough. I’m sure we’ve all told a white lie or two to protect someone we cared about from getting hurt. Right? But lets take a second to switch the tables around here – Forget the about the person lying and think about this - what would you really want to know? So let me think about this. I hate being lied to but what am I prepared to find out if I’m always told the truth? I am a stronger believer that sometimes ignorance is bliss and if something does not directly impact your current relationship or relationships with friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, family etc then its better left unsaid. Don’t get me wrong, by saying ignorance is bliss I don’t mean what I don’t know wont hurt me, I mean I won’t dwell on what I shouldn’t be dwelling on. Based on my personal experience, I’ve gone looking for something I had no business knowing and when I eventually found it out instead of reflecting on how not to let whatever it was impact my next relationship my mind was all about “How could he” “How dare he” and then I switched into judging mode, making judgements on things that had nothing to do with "me" or "us" to begin with and ..i eventually got hurt... I feel there are something’s that should always be laid out on the table. No excuses. And for everything else, if I find out then I’ll deal with it but I wont explicitly go looking if I don’t have a reason to.