I'm a casual type of guy. I enjoy the simple things in life and try to live each day to the fullest. Life is too short and stressful to live beyond your abilities. I don't try to compete with the neighbors instead being happy with who and where I am in life. I believe in commitment (I know its a bit old-fashioned, but its me), family and home. I've had many friends who feel a relationship is just a new car "getting a new one every five years", but I differ in that opinion. Communication is the key and something I feel is a must, without your bound to have problems. If you truly love and want to show it you and your significant other can talk about anything openly. Without communication neither of you know what hopes, dreams, wants, desires and needs are. I want to find that one special woman who makes my heart skip a beat and puts a twinkle in my eye whenever we talk or see each other across the room. I know this all sounds a bit corny but I hope somewhere out there someone feels the same. Everyone says to me there is someone for everyone but I am starting to wonder if they've been lying to me.

I think the best thing to do on a first date it so have lunch somewhere and just get to know someone. It's a goodway to just take sometime to talk and share with each other in a setting that is casual and open with no stress of being new to each other. Or if we've been talking online or other for awhile maybe meet for lunch and a matinee or do some window shopping at the mall. (I know technically I listed first & second dates but just had the ides flowing)