Looking for a clean discreet lady to enjoy a monogamous relationship with to include swimming, golf, shagging, dining, cuddling, etc. If a match, I will make her the center of my attention, and would expect the same in return, but no head games, control freaks, etc. Life is meant to be enjoyed together. Church at the beach is a major force in my life. I'm not looking for an email pen pal or a "player". My profile is pretty curt & to the point so as not to invite phonies or give misrepresentations, but .... to show a little insight .... I feel that I'm a man who: is kind, gentle, sensual, sexual, and able to keep a mate laughing. I can be naughty but nice, and like casual, but can put on the ritz when called to. I want to be the man my mate can't wait to get home to and doesn't want to leave in the morning. I want her to look for my wink and for it to take her breath away. She would be my love, my life, & my best friend. So, after reviewing my profile, please give me a shot if you think I have the attributes that you find pleasing. Perhaps I'm the guy who can fulfill your mom's prayers and your dreams. If you're fun, let's get together, but "Sincerity is a must" and ..... that's why "Gold-diggers need not apply".

I think an internet first date should be casual such a a lunch date that the lady can plan where she feels comfortable. If there is immediate chemistry, then perhaps the date can be extended through the afternoon, getting to know each other more personally.