I am married to a wonderful woman who has fallen ill and can no longer be everything either of us want for me. We are looking for a companion for me that can start helping to heal what has happened. No promises of anything other than a chance at a new relationship. Open minded is a trait that obviously is a must. I am on a journey of re-discovery. I lost touch with who I was for so long, that by the time I went looking for myself, I was gone having left no forwarding address. I miss my children Aaliyah and Emberlei, Daddy is so sorry he let you down, I hope someday I can at least make some repair to that grievous wound. I have in the last 2 years turned my back on a large number of my friends and family, some for the better, some I really miss and wish I was not too ashamed to look them in the eye. I have learned, and grown, and found out that I can't get by in this world without fighting on the terms set by whats around me. That has meant getting my ethics a little dirty, but the results have been incredibly satisfying.

This situation calls for original thinking, and any first date would be one where both my wife and I would be present would be around. Any relationship formed here would be one of friendship for all three involved. I envision a relaxed and public environment, most likely a nice sit down restaurant where we can talk and get to know each other, from there it will be lady's choice as to what occurs.