I believe that love and relationships are all about compromise (with the exception of compromising your beliefs or morals) and understanding the other person. I am not the jealous, obsessive type. I value real friendships with love and loyalty. Iv seen it all, done it all and then some, NOTHING you can say or do will ever shock me! If we bond I will be the best friend you will ever have. If we really connect and understand each other I will make you laugh until you pee! It takes ALLOT to piss me off! I am a super mellow guy. I am an awesome daddy to my 4 yr old son, (he does not live with me however our time together is PRICELESS!) I have a decent job, but eventually I aspire to be an addictions counselor. I am a very sensitive dude and I love to help people. Im very close with my family. I am a lover not a fighter. THIS IS WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR: Flaky, dishonest, scandalous, unstable, overweight, no sense of humor. I never give up on what I want until I get it, and I will NEVER settle for less than what I want. I am a guy who has lived an EXTAORDIANRY LIFE, very wild, crazy and fun as hell. I am ready to settle down with the rite lady. I am not afraid of commitment I believe its important to become best friends before jumping into anything really serious. I am in NO RUSH~! I would rather be single and happy then misserable in a comitted mistake. I will not play games with peoples heads or hearts. I believe in HONESTY~! I will simply, BLUNTLY say it like is! I have never been married. I am very close with my family. I am a true pisces in every sense. If we fall for each other I will spoil you in every way that matters FOREVER! I love the summer, I love water, pools! Camping, fishing, boating, tubing, Hottubs in the rain! I like tattoo's. Corvetts, & Motorcycles. The music I listin to0:- Rap, rock, metal, death metal, alternative, soft rock, classic rock, new age, hard house, trance, old school rap! I love Art and photography, I am ALWAYS trying to capture the perfect photo. I think this pretty much breaks down the jist of it, If you want to know anything at all just ask. Thanks for reading. Dougie

I like simple stuff, maybe a walk around a lake, go downtown and people watch, a nice drive, watch the sun set at red rocks. Dinner or a movie is fine too but can sometimes be a little awkward, On a first date its important to ME that YOU are COMFORTABLE, thats when things can jus flow, even if there is no chemistry we can still have a great time, and hopefully be friends. Someone once said: "I think a first date should be like an intro college course: informative, uncomplicated, and easy to ditch (just in case!)."