Do you want an extraordinary life? Be with someone who brings out the best in you? Who will support you and your dreams and inspire you to be a great man? Do you want to find out what you are made of? Learn to master the game of life with HUMOR?

I believe this is the stuff that makes relationships so irresistable...it allows
us to explore mysteries, the depths of our own psyche, hidden potentials that we've never known, never lived, never dared...however I am getting ahead of myself.. let's be friends and have a few laughs first!!!
(Just one more thing: I love the feeling when I walk in the room, our eyes lock and I know that's my guy and I am his girl...The earth that holds the water!....)
OK,OK..I am at it again with the dreaming stuff..you guys hate that, right?
Wanna keep it light and fun...it's good to start with that :)

I gravitate towards the sweet spot...being in balance...there isn't much I won't try as long as it's healthy,I enjoy creativity, spontaneity and adventure in everything I do and focus on simple pleasures that the moment brings...
I don't get offended by off-the-wall opinions, but I steer away from anger, intolerance or fanatics...we are not the same as our thoughts or emotions..it all comes and goes. I can disagree with you, but still like you.

I like direct, honest and free communication, we can hide, ignore or deny the truth, it's still the truth and I much prefer it even if it offends or hurts than playing around it. There are always peaceful ways to find solutions once the chips are down.. There is only one true North...
I tend to enjoy witty banter, get sassy and deep and try to align my values and live according to some grander principles...not always successful.
I figure people smarter and more spiritual than me must have figured it all out in earlier generations, so I try to listen, read and learn... at the same time just enjoy rolling with the punches and walk to the beat of my own drum...tomorrow is another day...and...it always seems to be a better day..change and growth is constant and exciting! I am having the best years of my life and grateful for all I have and have become.

It takes some know-how to relate to each other, ..I've learned a lot over the years...how to listen, accept and support my partner better...We've got to give what we want to get...Focus on what we have in common and how to create harmony, not the differences... I enjoy the growth that comes along in a mutually respectful, stimulating relationship. I believe a relationship should be nurtured and tended to just like a garden otherwise the delicate plant just dries out..

Well, whatever I say here can be misinterpreted and in no way an indicator of whether we would get along..that can be measured by how comfortable we feel around each other and whether we have that all-elusive chemistry...
So let's just get a conversation started without any expectations and see where that goes...

I'd love to find a man with whom I could go anywhere, do anything, talk about anything OR nothing and be happy and joyful just because we are together.

I admire a man who is purposeful,
careful with his words,
authentic,
excited about his life,
financially responsible,
open to adventure,
curious about the unknown,
has an active imagination and lifestyle
compassionate about those who missed out on the genetic lottery
emotionally available and embraces his fears
communicative (not through silence)
openly affectionate (touching is very important for me)
comitted to growth

Sexuality for me is an ever-exciting, living, growing and expanding priority, it's an endless discovery with unexpected surprises which is best in a trusting, committed relationship, in which you feel accepted.


I can relate to a lot of realities having travelled extensively, which is my passion...
I have the European sophistication (yes, I can cross-stich and embroider! and would make the perfect 19th-century bride! :)
I am also well-versed in the the North-American easy-goingness..(Is there such a word?) I don't do the Grouse Grind in high-heels... although I have known to have ridden my bike in high-heels and skirt, which is still a cross between a Dutch and a mountain bike, sorry...
I do qualify to be a Vancouverite though: I have shopped at Mountain Equipment Co-op, albeit only once.

I am feminine, caring and nurturing, and not a princess or a queen...more like a peaceful warrior if I need to choose an archetype...

You won't find me at the mall, I detest consumerism, although I like to surround myself with beautiful things...I buy my Christmas gifts throughout the year while travelling to special places...I always have a box of gifts ready to go...
You won't find me eating junk food...I love healthy living and trying out new ingredients... the dinner table is always a surprising event...

I like independence coupled with interdependence... we can't do it all alone.

If you read this far: WOW and THANK YOU...I know this is long and it's for a reason...if you are interested to find out more drop me a note,
if not, keep fishing, for every pot there is a lid!


P.S. I don't often respond to IM, please send me a note instead if I feel intrigued I'd rather meet sooner than later. I am not into collecting favorites or email buddies and will get off this site once we are dating.

surprise me!