Love is like the lotto - Can't win if you don't play !!

"I will never again make someone a priority who just considers me second best".

I want my LAST first date !! Someone please get me out of this pond !!!!

Hold those that are dear to you close to your heart, as you may wake up and discover 1 day, that you had a diamond and lost it while searching thru all of the other stones in the hopes of finding something better.

I am looking for someone to date, with the possibility of becoming long term. I would like to meet someone who likes to go out to dinner, movies, festivals, dancing, walks, comedy clubs, sporting events or just staying in and cooking dinner and watching a movie. I prefer a fun dive bar over a fancy place. I "Love" to listen to live music and do a variety of things. It's also nice just to cuddle up to maybe watch a movie or just to spend quality time together. Open communication and honesty are the most important key to any long lasting relationship. I want the kind of relationship that withstands the good and bad,and ends up stronger because of lifes curves and is not struck out by them. I am looking for my best friend, lover, and partner. I believe the strongest relationships are those where each person can give 100% of themselves to the other. I think we all reach a age when perfection no longer matters. We all have our own battle scars, so I am not looking for perfection, just someone who I think is perfect for me. What you see is what you get. You either like me or you don't. I am a very social person and make friends easily. Like all of us, I have had my share of bumps in life, but remain strong and still standing. I like to go out and and have fun, as well as staying home with that special woman and a good movie. Respect and honesty are a must with me.

I'm not looking for someone to live with, I'm looking for someone I can't live without. My perfect woman would feel the same way. She would be my best friend and able to communicate what's deep inside her. She would be respectful, honest, loving and able to spoil as I would spoil her. This woman would also be able to listen without judgement. I want someone who will compliment my life, not complicate it. I want the woman who becomes the last person I think of as I fall asleep, and the first as I awake each morning, the 1 who will bring a smile to my face everytime I think about her. I am not unhappy on my own but I would like to believe that with the right partner it would be much better. Don't dwell in the past but live in the now and look forward to the future.I am preferably looking for a woman who has the time to devote to a long term friendship/relationship and who is motivated for finding one.



-------------------------------Men are
---------------------------like the apples
----------------------on trees. The best ones
--------------------are at the top of the tree.
-------------------The women don't want to reach
----------------for the good ones because they are
----------------too afraid of falling and getting hurt.
--------------Instead, they just get the rotten apples
----------------from the ground that aren't as good,
--------------but easy. So the apples at the top think
---------------something is wrong with them, when in
----------------reality, they're amazing. They just
-----------------have to wait for the right woman to
--------------------come along, the one who's
--------------------------brave enough to
------------------------------climb all
------------------------------the way
-----------------------------to the top


The spaces between your fingers were created so that another's could fill them in.

Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of what you do with it.

I have found that there are 3 types of people in this world.

Those who make things happen
Those that watch things happen
Those that do not have a clue anything is happening

So which one are you??

Instructions for Life
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
3. Follow the 3 R's : Respect for self
Respect for others and
Responsibility for all your actions.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone every day.
9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
13. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.
14. Remember the best relationship is one in which your love for one another exceeds your need for each other.
15.Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift that’s why it’s called the present!!!

Take each day and make it count, happiness is only up to you so take a chance and make it happen...no regrets!


P.S. If you can tell me the title of this song, and who sang it, that puts you 2 steps up then.


Just a small town girl
Living in a lonely world
She took the midnight train going anywhere

Just a city boy
Born and raised in south Detroit
He took the midnight train going anywhere

Any clues ??


Fake friends: Never ask for food.
Real Friends: Are the reason you have no food

Fake Friends: Call your parents Mr/Mrs
Real Friends: Call your parents Dad/Mom

Fake Friends: Never see you cry
Real Friends: Cry with you

Fake Friends: Borrow your stuff for a few days, then give it back
Real Friends: Keep your stuff so long, they forget it's yours

Fake Friends: Would knock on your front door
Real Friends: Walk right in and say "I'm home !"

Fake friends: Are for awhile
Real Friends: Are for life

On a first date, I believe it is best to meet over coffee or a drink, at a place that is quiet enough to allow easy conversation. We can always extend the date if the chemistry is there, if not, we both part ways gracefully and move on.