I am looking for my life mate. I do not expect this quest to be easy. I don't expect that an internet profile will magically bring her to me. All I can do is remain open and hope that my heart will draw her to me. If you don't know who you are or what you want in life, move along. If you are not willing to sacrifice your time and effort to find out what the true extent of our relationship is, don't waste my time. If I like you enough to ask you out to coffee, and afterwards I let you know that I would be interested in another date, then it is safe for you to assume that I am not looking for anyone else until you and I have discovered whether or not we are meant for one another. I expect the same in return. Complete honesty and forthrightness is an absolute necessity. It isn't that I don't know how to play the games that people play, its that I just don't think any of that garbage is worth my time. I am an emotionally intense person. If I like you enough to bring into my life, then I want you to really be IN MY LIFE. If you are looking for a casual date or just want to add another guy to your list in case the one you are emailing now doesn't turn out, spare me. If you are for real, then hit me up. I can't promise that we will like each other, but I can promise you that I will be absolutely upfront from square one.

Something simple and personal, that allows for conversation. A coffee shop or diner would be fine in my book.