Well I found it necessary to clear some things up.
First while I think every one has beauty in them let's get over this idea that it starts with what's on the inside maybe in th 50s or 60s that was true. Everyone or I should say most people here are looking for someone they find appealing or a combination that works for them as an individual. I'm really annoyed that many overweight women think because I'm black I like a big woman let's just squash that mith. I spend a lot of time in the gym working to stay in shape. I would prefer someone who does the same. I don't much care for this site as every attractive woman I email or most of them don't like black men and some of them are black themselves maybe black men are not in style or maybe I'm just not as handsome as my mom says I am lol. I apologize if this offends anyone I don't get a lot of messages here but about 90% of the ones I get are from overweight women. Call me shallow I don't care I want to be attracted there men I'm sure who love a full figured woman I'm just not one of them thanks

I don't know about fantasys or living happily ever after but id like someone consistent down to earth and a good communicator. Good luck to every one. Especially me lol cause at this point I need it more than the rest of y'all lol