UPDATE************** Want to start out by saying I see alot of the same women looking at my profile but they must be too shy or scared?? to say Hi. I think you all know who you are. If you email me I will respond; I think it's the right thing to do. I won't leave you hanging like some folks on here do. Kinda rude if you ask me. Alright onto my profile. I'm looking for a true connection. Physical attraction is important but I'm also looking for the deeper connection that will last a lifetime. You know, the conversation two people have without saying a word. That's when it's solid. Intelligence has always been a turn on for me; don't wanna be with someone who has no input about anything. I’ve been single for most of the last three years and kinda like it but I truly believe one is not suppose to spend their life alone. Even though I'm enjoying doing whatever I want at the time, doing it with someone of the fairer sex is always better. Enjoy many friends from all walks of life which always keeps things interesting. I live in Kazoo but am from Grand Rapids which I do travel back and forth quite a bit for work, family and friends. This summer has been insanely busy and I'm not online alot and when I am it is usually from my phone and usually only for a short time. It's a pain emailing from my phone so it may take a while for me to respond.**** Don't be afraid to check back, I will update this very soon. Yeah I smoke but after buying cigs today I'm really gonna start thinking about quitting. ****UPDATE****10/04****I'm still smoking. Man, this a tough vice to quit. I should mention that if you don't have a photo there is no way I'm going to reply. After all it is 2009; I think you can put a pic up. I'd also like to say that most of my hair is brown but there is some grey; not a big deal to me but you should know and decide if it works for you. Once the snow melts and the time changes to longer days, it's pretty tough to keep me indoors. I Disc Golf, I kayak, camp, like to read, go to museums, festivals, pretty much any event that I may have time for and sometimes the internal pull to head to the big lake is too hard to resist. Up at the lake in Ludington is paradise. I try to make it there a couple times a year. I like to learn new things daily if possible. I have a full time job as well as own a small business. I am looking for someone who "fits". I know, "What does that mean right?" Well I guess we'll know when we know. Someone from 31 and up, 4'10"-5'7", someone who is active and likes to do different things as well as chilling at home. I've been in long term relationships, with and without children, in the past just never got married so maybe that why I look and feel and act younger than my age. Maybe less stress, who knows. Man I'm ramblin' here; I gotta go to bed. Be safe.
All my pics were taken since March of 2008.
At least my spelling and punctuation is correct. That's gotta count for something, right?

First date would depend on the 2 people involved. I think you can only make a wise choice after chatting or talking for a bit before coming up with a cool date. Maybe wine and dinner, maybe a walk through the park or maybe even laying on the grass and watching the stars.