I had a big list of what I don't want on here, but most of the time, the list was ignored. However, I will say no games, I am real, not a player, and am looking for someone to share the times with, I'm not into the dating "games" most are into and I would expect you to not be into them either. I find it very hard to take women on this site seriously, as so far it seems their just on here to further boost their egos. If your goal on here is just to mess around or whatever don't bother to message me! For the last time, its annoying and disrespectful.
I'm Jeff, from Hopkins. I work full time and am contemplating going to college part time soon. I work days 6am-2pm in manufacturing. I live alone and like it that way but in due time, if I meet someone would love to share space together. During my spare time during the week unfortunately there isn't a heck of alot to do so I usually go to the gym for a couple hours, cook for myself, and watch movies or play a video game. During the weekends I like meeting new people, go out to a show or grab a couple drinks or just relax and hang with friends. I am open to new things be it indoors or out(but not really into winter related outdoor stuff to be honest, I hate the cold!) As far as what I wanna do in the future I would like to get a career going but haven't decided exactly on what yet. Depends on what I can do, what I'm interested in, and what holds a good future. Eventually owning a home would be awesome. As far as my taste in music in concerned I like my metal, all sorts of metal. It doesn't have to be your thing but at least respect it. I don't care what a possible partner might like but I really don't care much for rap. So if thats your thing its ok as long as you're not into the "gangsta yoyo" culture, lol. I've been single for a very long time now for a few reasons 1. I had to shed some weight, pretty much ear my goal now I lost 75 lb in just over a year. 2 I had to get my life straightened out by getting a decent job and getting my own place w/o roomates/parents. Those two made dating difficult, but if you're a understanding person you could understand why it was troublesome. I'm definitely not into games and once I'm dating someone regularly I am a one women man, and prefer the same.

Like it says I'm from Hopkins and am getting messages from women who live quite a ways away. I prefer those who contact me to live within the TwinCities.


oh and and update I'm attending HTC for network administrations. its a computer thing, no I'm not a geek!

So we don't waist each others time heres a few things I'm NOT looking for.

1. No psychological problems. Women are difficult make any sense out of from the get go sometimes, this makes it 10 times worse.
2.no BBWs. Not attracted I'm 6'2 210lb, I'm not going to be attracted to 5'4 200lb sorry.
3. if you're 45 and your profile says 30, sorry grandma we all know!
4. If you still looking for the "jerk" type guy, you're obviously not marriage material. I'm not the typical whimpy nice guy, however I am a good guy. So if you're looking for a felon who smokes meth, and treats you like garbage, sorry we're not gonna get a long and you obviously need help.(quite extreme I know, but the women that go for the jerks/badguys, are... mentally messed up, there I said it, unfortunately, theres so many of you....)

Honestly I'm pretty open, something basic though, like getting coffee is total cool with me. And go from there and do more things if we know we're comfortable with each other.