Fit and attractive(let you be the judge of the looks)was a former designer in the aerospace field and now semi-retired. I think you'll find that I know the difference between CONFIDENCE and ARROGANCE. I take great pride in my appearance, believe in being upfront, communicative and my sense of humor definitely comes through. I firmly believe in the total package....appearance, personality and inner qualities but obviously the accent is on "getting along". Think you'll find me to be genuine, caring and romantic. I do enjoy intimacy but it must be with that "special" person. This may seem hard to believe but I am NOT looking for a one-night stand. Naturally I'm hoping that my match would enjoy some of my interests and I'm certainly the type that will try anything (almost anything..lol) at least once. I'm looking hopefully for my "last" firstdate, a long term relationship (marriage is not ruled out but that is down the road) with a lady that has a great smile, nice disposition, tall and fun to be with. If you're not sure where HATFIELD is...please do a mapquest before writing as it would save both of us a lot of trouble.

Coffee, drinks or something mutually agreed to by us. I think it should be an atmosphere that is conducive to conversation, sharing thoughts and ideas and seeing if there is any interest. If there seems to be a mutual desire to connect again then a second date with dinner, a show maybe or dancing would be appropriate.