HOPE... Is that thing with Feathers...That perches in the Soul...That Sings the Tune without the Words... And never Stops At All...
~ Emily D!ckinson~

A strong relationship with a solid foundation will always be a source of comfort, hope, love & support...And you will know it deep within your soul! I'm not here fishing for a fling.... I'm looking for a best friend & great companion. I'd love to meet someone to do every day things and the not so every day things!! I am ready for you ...if you are like minded and open to share the same life that I strive for!

You've got to have a great sense of humour and the ability to laugh when things aren't so great!! You're wit & intelligence superceed the fact that you're not just another pretty face. With everything you touch...it is done in the spirit of love, its executed by your strong sense of morals and you live your life with the utmost integrity!!


A good friend sharpens your character, draws your soul into the light and challenges your heart to love in the greatest ways.

You should be open and honest...you can trust I will always be the same!! We should be able to share things that are appropriate and that is dependent on how long we've known each other. Please know that part of being open and honest doesn't necessarily include divulging all on a first date. Leave somethings to be discovered for next time! A little mystery is always a good thing to keep each of us wanting to learn more about one another. You want to find true unconditonal love!! And if you live your life with the intention of living it to the fullest, appreciate all the little things... we can expect to walk along side one another, harmoniously.

I wanna man that... walks beside me, not in front or behind me...in Mind, Body & Soul!!

For many years I worked in the Interior Design industry doing various things. However, I am no longer able to pursue my passion for design full time as I have Fibromyalgia/FM & Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/ME, that are chronic pain conditions. Now I volunteer for the MEFM society of BC and do advocacy for people with FM &/or ME. It's been very important for me to help support & educate people including people with these conditions, their families & friends, the general public, doctors & our medical community. Through my interior design background & own personal experiences living with a disablilty, I've helped modify and implement ergonomic designs in homes or work spaces for people living with these condtions.

When people ask me "What Do You Do"... I tell them now... "I LIVE MY LIFE WITH MEANING & PURPOSE"

Please note, ideally I am lookin for a relationship with a man between 30-45 approximately as I do not want a man considerably younger then myself. My profile shows a broader age range because I've made a lot of great friends through the events. Thanks for respecting that!...Now bring on the single men!


A Time For Everything

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die:
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what has been planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate;
A time for war, and a time for peace.

You don't have to impress me...Just be yourself... & the rest will work itself out...YOU DO NEED TO IMPRESS ME THOUGH WITH INTEGRITY, HONESTY AND RESPECT...ITS ABOUT BEING THOUGHTFUL, KIND & ENDEARING!!