Fairly easy going, love to have fun and enjoy life. Sometimes i enjoy going out on the spur of the moment, but usually try and organise to be helpful.Enjoy a good boogie night, 70's - 80's music. I enjoy watching science fiction films, documentaries, and the odd chick film, like Bridget Jones diary!! i rarely read a fiction novel, usually find a lot of interest in reference, eg, volcanoes and earthquakes, computers, etc. It would have to be a good fiction, before i'd think about reading it. I usually wear my heart on my sleeve, and treat everybody the same, like i wish to be treated myself. I defer conflict, but love to hear and see people happy. I have one daughter of 13, who is my life, very well behaved ( i would say that, wouldnt i?),and like a lot of girlie's, loves modern clothes! I am divorced, and i feel that i need to grow inside and meet up with a charming lady. I dont smoke, but enjoy a drink.I'm really sorry to say that i'm not into tatoos and piercings. I love to cycle in warm weather and swim now and again. I'm not a keep fit fanatic, but then again i dont like to become a couch potato, although a little like that these cold evenings. I do enjoy going out, and would like to try salsa or cheroc. I need a nice/good partner for that, could you be the one that will show me the ropes on the dance floor?? Generally, i'm fairly open to what people like to do, not too fussy, and usually go with the flow, with most things. I really enjoy walking around Cambridge, it is a beautiful city to wander around the streets. Popping into some nice tea/coffee room and stopping by at the fabulous colleges taking photos. Watching people getting onto punts beside the river, having a drink. Would you like to do this? Simple pleasures can be so memorable.I love to hear asian music, and have bought recently a cd called Sa Ding ling, a lovely chinese lady who is up coming in the west here. She has done a few concerts, but unfortunately have not been able to go to them. I love to hear foreign accents and find them very stimulating. I'm just an ordinary guy, wishing to find some secure happiness and contentment. I'm a fairly sensitive chap,but respond considerately to a lady. I think honesty with someone, whether you meet them on here or not , is very important, to have good building bricks. Lay them down right, and it does help to build what evers on top more stable. Thanks for reading this, if you pass me by, may your path bring you to where your heart tells you to go.........

There are so many examples of what people might do on a first date. Anywhere between going to a library and doing some bungee jumping!! Seriously though, depends where the mood takes us.Like a lot of people i enjoy going to the beach, and listening to those waves. It refreshes me.I dont really enjoy too much loud music, but in small amounts go along with the mood. I've just started taking up salsa dancing, this i find great fun. I think on a first date, its more how we talk to each other, rather than what might be said. Something to do with chemistry i guess. I guess if there is none of this, whatever we percieve it to be, then i guess it dosnt matter what is said. Heavy stuff, time to simply have some fun.