well lets see...im average with a huge personality, a smile that will melt the icing off your cake, a giggle that is contagious, a heart that is huge, a closeness with my family that is truly special, a devotion to my son and his family along with pouncer (you'll have to ask me..lol that is outstanding!) im tall, average build and being well almost 50 trying hard to hang onto what i have that is still pleasing to the eyes..lol..im usually always smiling or giggling about something and im very much a smart alic...very sassy as well, but no one is perfect and i feel like im a great catch for anyone, im a great friend and compassionate to all..the only things i cant tolerate is lying, cheating, abusiveness (thats a given) drugs, and too much alcohol..i do attend church, but that doesnt mean u have to..i dont do well with game players or someone that is in it for some "fun"...i want something serious and i will know when it happens, but for now, im just me, a very simple person that is very easy to please..so there ya have it...me in a nut shell..now the question is...did i catch your attention to keep on reading?...oh just so ya know..if u want to catch my attention u need humor...making me miss my mouth when trying to drink my water would be good!!! someone that likes to dance (and not just slow)..someone who shoots pool, someone who loves the water be it lake or ocean, someone who loves the outdoors, someone who believes in God, someone who loves their family and friends and would be there for them first and foremost...and finally, someone who is taller than i, dark hair, dark eyes, all of your teeth, whether real or fake...hehehe...and maybe (i know im pushing it here) all of your hair...a great smile, a compassionate soul, a huge heart, not afraid to laugh at yourself, can tolerate me (this is a real biggie!), someone with similiar interests...ok this should keep y'all going for a bit...hopefully i will have spiked some interest...time will tell!

first date huh?..well im up for pretty much anything..a picnic, dinner and a show, just going down to the lake with a bottle of wine and good conversation, who knows what to do...whatever we feel like doing...nothing has to be planned and in my experience its better not planned..besides if the perverbial spark is there we will both know it.