If you know what is important in life and willing to risk it all for the unknown, life can lead to wonderful surprises. Expect the unexpected when we meet.

I am looking for a man who understands and loves women. A man who is in sync with his desires and needs, an ambitious, strong man who knows where he is headed. My ideal mate is white, taller than me, fit, and has hair (on top). Do not waste your time if you do not fall into this category as these are physical deal breakers for me no matter how sweet you are.

I am looking for someone who loves children, someone who enjoys going out as much as staying in, someone who is intelligent and can carry a conversation just about anything whether it be politics, our economy, world issues, or current events. If you have never picked up an issue of the G&M, we will not be a good match. My ideal mate will want to challenge me and have great debates. Someone who is energetic, modest, honest, well-mannered, and can laugh at himself or at any awkward situation. A man who takes pleasure in leaving the city behind on the weekends for picnics on the beach, hiking, bicycling, tossing a frisbee, etc. I suppose someone with a quest for life, someone fearless who lives for today and not for his retirement.

I have been separated on good terms since 2008 and have a 4 year-old little girl who is my absolute treasure. I am not here to play games or to fill my weeks with dates, so if you are here for one-night hook-ups, please move on. Kids (anyone under 30), please don't bother.

Gentlemen: there are finer things in life than the convertible car you drive and the location of your cottage. It all starts with chemistry, friendship, and laughter; the rest will follow. If you think I've used "I" too much, you are right.

If you are out there, I'd love to hear from you.

After a phone call or two, we should be ready to meet and take it from there. If there is chemistry, we'll both know it in the first 5 minutes.