july 6, 2009

figured i should update this.... so here goes......

i used to be on here, then met an amazing man. life's timing, unfortunately, was not as wonderful. so here i am. again.

here's a bunch of random stuff:

*i am not "looking" for anything/anyone in particular.

*my life is ridiculous, at most times. for the most part, not because of any of my doing.

*i like people closer to my own age (this just occurred to me recently). i think it's a little weird to date someone not a whole lot older than my son. ha ha.

*i'm tall.i like tall people. trust me...it's my issue, not yours.

*i'm a chain smoker, at times. especially when drinking.i tried to quit not too long ago. that lasted 6 weeks. i'm really not looking to do that again, any time soon. sorry.

*yes.i have tattoos. no, i do not want to talk about yours. (unless of course you are heavily tattooed, then we shall both get the once over, up front, and be done with it. lol.)

*i believe "it's not what you do, but who you do it with". so please don't ask me what i like to do. i might like a lot of stuff, but i may not like doing it with you.

*most of my closest friends are men. this will not change. for anyone.so be a man, have some faith in the fact that there are actually truthful, honest, loyal women still out there, and lighten up. they're my friends. they were here long before you and will be long after you. (and no, they will not beat you up. well, most of them won't.)

*"i'd rather be sad at the truth, than mad at a lie." i'm a big girl. give it to me straight. because that's exactly how you're getting it. careful.....it stings sometimes.....

*i've met quite a few awesome people on here. don't be a douche, and mess up my score card :)


anything else you want to know? ask me. just make sure you really want to know. sometimes the answers weren't at all what you expected......


p.s. i'm heather. now you can say you "met me".