They say this is the hardest part to do because most people really have no idea what to put here. I am an honest guy that will tell it straight even if it means hurting me. I have a very big heart and looking to share some of that heart with a woman that also has a big heart. I am divorced and want to stay that way. I don't think I will ever get married again. But then maybe with the right woman things could be good??? I do have a shy side until you get to know me and then you may say there is no way I am shy LOL.


I wanted to share a little more about me. In November I decided that my life needed a change in direction. I used to work out a lot but the gym I belonged to closed and I never really looked for a new place. Then in November Gold’s gym came to me work and offered the company a Corp. discount. I took advantage of this and joined. Then I talked to a personal trainer and set some goals. I knew that the semester at school was about done and then I would have extra time to work out. So I cleaned my house of any and all junk food. I decided enough was enough. As of Jan 18th I had lost 40 lbs. As of now I have lost a total of 114 pounds and really do feel great. I intend to lose more until I reach the weight I was when I graduated high school. I figure that if and when I was to ever connect with a lady that I being smaller in body size would lead to a better life for both of us.

I guess I am kind of a geek. I like working on and around computers and networking devices. I have been studying Cisco Engineering for the couple of years and now I teach Cisco CCNA at the College

I used to bowl and had a good average but have not gone I a long while. I like movies and going out to eat but I eat better now. I love to shop and when I have real money to spend that is even more awesome!!!! But then I guess everyone is like that.

I just want a woman that can be honest with herself and with me??? I guess I am not going to be silly enough to think that everyone thinks the same way I do but maybe there is one lady that might??? But for now I am looking to make friends and if that leads to something else then that would cool too!!!!!!!!!

The first date really could be just about anything as long as we were able to talk and just share things. I do need to give a word or warning as I do like to talk so I understand that it is said a woman talks 10 times more than a man??? Well I am not a normal man and love to talk so if you are going to talk 10 times more than me I guess you should learn to talk at warp speed LOL

Any dates there were to happen after that would need to be for both to decide