I speak 4 languages (some better than others), own my home, love my mom (but don't live in her basement or anything), shower regularly, I have a muscular build with a little extra around the middle, I've been told I look better in person than in pictures and yes that's a kilt. I have 2 kids, but they live with their mom in Southern Virginia.

I enjoy Cooking (I was a chef in a previous life), Brewing beer, the gym (because of the cooking and beer), the cliche going out AND staying in and seeing live local music.

As for the Children question up above. I have a 12 year old daughter and a 9 year old son. I am about 75% sure I don't want to have any MORE kids, but if you have children that is not a problem as I hope the fact that I already have them wouldn't be. Does that make sense?

You: It boils down to 3 things: Attractive (to me) Smart, and local (no more than 30 minutes away)

a cup of something delicious and some interesting conversation. I can't believe people do a movie for a first date. Isn't the 1st date to get to know someone? How can you do that at a movie?