Hello ... just trying out another dating site ... as most of you, i am simply looking for the right connection ... i am a very considerate guy with a real concern for others and a sensitivity to women that seems to be rare ... but i'm still very typical "guy" ... so sometimes i do "stupid guy stuff" ... let's face it ... men and women are different ... lol ... having said that ... i find that women think i am a refreshing and interesting man who has depth and also knows how to have fun ... i don't really want to try to "sell" myself here ... i just want to put enough information to stimulate some interest ... the real test comes when we meet for a cup of coffee or a drink ... my experience with the dating sites is, that you can't really tell anything about someone until you meet face to face ... and pictures just don't capture our "in person" looks ... our pictures just don't do us justice ... so unless you are willing to at least meet for a beverage after getting aquainted by email or IM, then i'm sorry ... i don't have time to waste with long online conversations leading nowhere ... been there ... done that ... i hope this doesn't sound rude ... but i am sure many of you value your time as well ... so lets get aquainted ... meet for a beverage and see if that type of "normal" short date leads to something more ... thanks for reading and best wishes in your search.