| | Okay heres the deal, I have been on this site now for 7 months. Arranging to meet is not difficult at all.I must live in a bubble or be the worst judge of character ever. I have learned that retired really means unemployed, men our age who have young children or older kids that still live at home, either have emotional problems or just to lazy to work need not respond. If you don't have a vehicle don't think that I don't mind being your chauffer. A lot of men state in their profile that they look much younger,get a grip, take a good look int he mirror see yourself as others see you, we are after all, in our late 40's & 50's. Don't tell me about the highest mountains you've climbed, how you like to skydive or the deepest oceans you have swum, I don't care about your motor cycles, boats, fast cars or the trips you have taken that don't impress me much, it is in the past and I might add likely with your ex. I don't want to hear about how the ex has distroyed you financially, how you don't get along with your kids, parents or neighbours. I don't need your gambling, drinking, drugs or sex addictions or the fact that you can't hold on to a job. These are just a few tips I have picked up during time on POF and beleive this is only the tip of the iceburg and that women are just as bad. I'm sure I will get a lot of nasty responses and welcome it. For those who don't fall into the above I'd love to hear from you, if I haven't scared you off. I am looking for a real man, one who is emotionally healthy, employed and is generally happy with his life............ |