I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I like watching movies and cuddling on the couch. Going out to restaurants or movies is fun, but not by yourself. I drink, but am not a drunk. I am not a druggie and have no criminal record. I enjoy flying one of my many kites, which are not kids toys. Some of my big kites will drag you in a strong wind! I like the beach. The pounding of the surf is just so relaxing, not to mention the steady wind for kite flying. I work a steady job and pay my bills so I am not looking for someone to use,looking for someone to share my life with. I am a nice guy, give me a chance to prove it!

I think the first date should be in a public place where she is comfortable. A nice dinner in a relaxed atmosphere with plenty of time to chat and get to know eachother makes for good first dates. Chatting online or on the phone prior to the first face to face meeting is helpful for both parties and kind of gives you a hint as to if you really would like to meet this person.