I'm everything your mother told you to look for and everything she warned you about. :-)

Seriously, I'm more than most men can handle. I'm Beautiful, Intelligent, Talented, Charming, Honest, Highly Opinionated, Complicated, Adventurous, Energetic, Very Independent, Extremely Sensitive, Passionate, Comical, Sarcastic, Sensual, Sultry, Mysterious, Infinitely deep, Scorpio. . . Unique (whew! lots of adjectives there. . .) No problems with changing the oil or doing a tune-up. Got my Class M license--ride a 2002 Shadow ACE with all of the bells and whistles. My home (sanctuary) is clean and tidy--I like it that way. Can go from tank top 'n cut-offs to after 7 attire with ease--I turn heads either way. Can be a tomboy and an elegant lady. Enjoy cooking when I have the time. Love the outdoors, and I can "cut a rug" better than a utility knife. Have a humorously sarcastic view of life, (hey! it's not permanent ya know. . .) and I sweat (not perspire) when I work out. Long term thinker. Can understand most points of view and will always take all sides into consideration when making a decision, but it will be my decision.

Favorite philosopher: tie between Socrates, Jesus Christ, and Bill Cosby.

Favorite crooner: Nat King Cole (Tony Bennet close second) Enjoy all genres of music, except gansta rap and Opera if I'm not at one. . .

Mind games are a waste of time--so I keep it direct--too direct for the meek. If you can't handle someone telling you exactly what she's thinking, don't come calling. On the other hand, if you are looking for someone who'll call it as she sees it--good, bad or ugly (even if her eyes are fuzzy), voila! Have an 19 y.o. daughter--luv her to bits. As much as I love children, I have no desire to have any more. One is plenty for me.

To be honest, I have done just about everything I have ever set out to do. Now I'm looking for the simpler things of life and some adventure, like learning to hanglide, taking a cruise and finding the perfect lover for me (okay, that one's not so simple). Any takers? :-)

Who I'm looking for:

God in a suit on a motorcycle! :-)

SERIOUSLY, if you are: handsome and PHYSICALLY FIT (be athletically built or I won't want ya), HIGHLY educated (4 yrs. college +), very SUCCESSFUL in your career choice BUT not a workaholic (retired is fine too, just no couch potatoes), OPEN and HONEST in your communications (not afraid to say what's on your mind and heart), one who knows how to LISTEN, VERY well organized at home and at work (yes, neatness counts), a NON SMOKER, enjoy traveling, love roller coasters, motorcycle rides and picnics in a park, are very affectionate and compassionate, romantic, a good DANCER, HUMOROUS (translate: can make me belly laugh), playful, RESPONSIBLE yet spontaneous, a person of your word, manage your time well, have a vasectomy, be UNMARRIED and ready for a relationship (no drama kings please), believe in a Higher Power in some fashion without having to shove your perspective down anyone else's throat, and can accept all of me as I am, you'd be perfect. Multilingual is a plus.

Also NOTE: if you don't have a current picture on your profile, don't bother to contact me. I will not respond.

I have no specific preferences--could be casual, could be ritzy--it's all fun if the person I'm sharing it with feels comfortable enough that we can laugh aloud without concern for what anyone else thinks. Tea, coffee, smoothies, drinks, lunch, dinner, dancing, theatre, museums, sculpture gardens, hiking, boating, biking, riding motorcycles on some long country roads, picnic in the park--it's all good.