I am a fun loving family oriented guy that hasnt found that "normal" girl that wants to use her imagination to the fullest with me.....I was raised to be a gentleman, are there any ladies left? Then again... what is "instant" attraction? Is it plainly the phsyical virtues or a combination ? Or other attributes like manners and respect and common upbringing similarities.
You know when someone doesnt " fit the picture" when you meet them, but for me, if there is any mental connection at all, I will want to explore it further. What tends to happen is many times if the person is not on ( or at least near) your level, the CONFIDENCE and thus mental side to some degree is not there either and that destrys the chemistry.
I have dated many physically beautiful women, but not for very long, because I need that mental attraction, and most of the time those women are not "developed" in that way. They rely just on their looks because they will continue to get heavy attention with that alone...Now if you are the total package?...well...

I dream but in a different way....I need to be creative in business, ( because its the challenge that makes it sizzle)..I have my own Ins agency and I deal with Investments for clients as well...I am involved w Real Estate projects....I am training for a Triathlon officially next Summer.. so I enjoy my running, biking and swimming,and the weights. I have been missing my tennis, golf and skiing, but it will be there when I get back to it..

Meeting at a romantic location, like the NY skyline or at the beach. Having conversation and then taking a long walk on a hot Summer night.( if its Summer...lol)