Let me be clear, since this question has come up in several conversations. First, you will find me a single man, single meaning unmarried without a wife living in the place I call home. Second, my dating tastes are single women who are "unmarried" and not living with their spouse or ex'. Third, my preference is not your race, religion, creed or color... it is your smile, your love of life and how you treat others.

As a relatively tall at 6'2, ex athletic built, enjoyable, handsome Black male who is looking and is ready to find a partner / lover / friend who can enjoy life. We don't have to get married immediately (so don't panic), marriage does not have to be in our "cards"! How about just a honest partnership filled with integrity, open-ness and great communication? How hard can that be...laughing. Well based on my experience and listening to my friends, it seem like it must be a chore.

Are you having trouble finding a loving partner? What do you expect in a relationship? Do you need your own space? Do you want a man who is secure with himself and is little if not at all jealous of your personal friends and your own time?

It is amazing that there are so many women and men online looking for a compatible partner. So many in our generation seems to believe that a microwave relationship can be found. You know the kind who wants to meet, pull it off the shelf ..cook for two minutes and voila... perfection.

This is not in my cookbook ...Most relationships need sauteing and deep massages, They need to be carefully ordered, fully prepared and cooked over an even flame....

What are your desires? Are you willing to be honest and vulnerable with me?

Just an evening out with you, let's make our own rules up.

Female
Age between 38 and 58