Hey there, I'm looking to meet people and get to know them the old-fashioned way. I have never been much of a dater but have been in relationships. Through them I have learned more about myself; about what I need and what I have to offer.

I'm not a huge participant in the gay night scene but it's definitely fun to hang out in the villages (old & new) with friends from time to time! My circle of gay friends is slowly growing larger but I'll admit that I don't feel 100% at ease in the gay community... I just like to do my own thing and hang out with friends, and not think about how the group I'm with would be defined, you know? (I may have just contradicted myself.)

I'm really big into film, good television shows, literature and music. At the risk of sounding pretentious, I do tend to prefer things that are a bit left of mainstream. I have a steady job, live by myself in the city and have a pretty active social life. I like funny things, and conversations mixed with laughs and personal talk are the most memorable!

Anyway, these things are difficult to write... and they make me seem so serious! I am serious when need be, usually am having a laugh with friends.

I'm up for something light and casual - coffee, or maybe dinner.. somewhere that we can talk stare creepily at each other.

Male
Must not be married