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About Me
Hi everyone,
I'm new to the Gray Court area, so i really want to explore my surroundings and meet new people. I'm seeking friends to share interests and smiles, i love exploring the outdoors and, am up for the arts and all that this new area has to offer. i enjoy doing almost anything, it is the company that really makes it special.
I am a total romantic, an outdoorsy, blue jeans kinda guy, down to earth, laid back, sensitive, caring, giving, honest and real, i live my life with integrity and honor, I try to take the high road and be someone i can be proud of. I'm also a spiritual person, but not going to press my viewpoints upon others.
I have an open mind and like to hear what others have to say, and well being opinionated, i guess I'm also up for a debate. I give respect to other people and live by the golden rule, I have decent morals and values but am still fun...my sense of humor stretches from silly to raunchy, knowing when not to be the latter.
I believe a strong foundation for a relationship starts with a real friendship, built upon trust, mutual respect, honesty and open communication. I'm looking for a lady with a loving, giving, happy heart, a sweet disposition and an understanding of monogamy and respect, and should she come my way i would be so happy to pursue what might develop.
I would not ask for what i could not return myself.
I posses the same attributes I am looking for in my life partner, best friend, confidant and lover, someone to share with, rely upon, hold, nurture, love, understand, champion and to laugh and cry with, I feel I have a lot to give.
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lets play it by ear and have no expectations, as long as we are enjoying a mutual activity we'll have a decent time
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