While I believe that everyone desires to find that special soulmate, the basis of
all fairytales and romance stories, I also believe that we can share a deep
bond and pleasurable times with someone we feel comfortable with, that can develop
into a lasting friendship. Happiness, after all, may only be moments long, but
can be stretched to last eons. Mutual experiences are the common thread in any
relationship and can be anything from seeing a concert, sharing a meal, sharing a
bed or a dance. Having lived over half a century (omg!), certain values have expanded, like empathy, sincerity, respect and honesty, while frivolous or transient issues have fallen away. I would like to find a man with similar values, yet retains an open mind as I do.. As far as appearance goes, I am fairly tall, 5'7" and feel more comfortable with a tall man (so I can have the option of wearing heels and not be towering over my companion!). The blonde, I admit, is tinged with gray, and while
not an athlete or gym rat, do try to maintain a semi-healthy lifestyle and attractive
appearance. Most chemistry is found between the ears so humor is vital. I can be
found crunching through the leaves in the fall or wandering on a boardwalk at any
time. Additionally, enjoy concerts, amusement parks, atlantic city, driving to
a winery or just exploring new places.I believe fun can be found anywhere at any
time ..

There is nothing that beats looking into someone's eyes across a table over a
glass of wine , for relaxing the senses and creating a romantic environment.
(Romance is what makes fantasies come true after all..)Holding hands wouldn't hurt
either, if the spark is there.