Hello out there where ever you are sweetie. I am a 41 year old male living in San Luis Obispo, CA that is single, never been married, and has the world's most beautiful 4 year old little girl. I own and operate a local company and love what I do. I have spent several years working hard at growing my company. Also, I have spent the last 4 years dedicating most of my free time to my daughter. Now I am taking the time to find a women who wants to build an everlasting relationship through emotional intimacy and great communication. I can be the first to get up and hit the surf, mountain bike trail, or soccer field but will not miss the opportunity to be presently empathic for my partner or sleep in. I do like to spend a lot of time with my partner. I believe great boundaries and well developed individuality are two key ingredients for a successful relationship. Overall I am a pretty down to earth individual that enjoys what life has to offer. I enjoy nice dinners with a good glass of red wine, movies, laughing, jogging on the beach, camping, surfing, hiking, mountain bike riding, soccer, & snowboarding. I think its also OK to just hang out and read books. My daughter is with me about 30-40% of the time & is a huge asset to our two person family. We invite a special women who is her own individual, mature (a must), & takes care of herself to come join us on a wonderful journey through life. I do love my daughter and I am looking for a women that I can have an intimate relationship with outside of my awesome connection with my daughter. I am looking for someone who has good boundaries & good morals. I have lived here on California's central coast most of my life. I am pretty grounded here and am not looking to move anytime soon. Life is what you make of it and I love to have a good time. My outlook is positive & my current passion is to build a long lasting relationship where I can share my feelings and be a nice guy without losing points for it. I welcome all peaceful women with no expectations, who can appreciate what I am trying to say in this short paragraph.

I'm not sure exactly how to interpret this statement. I think email communication, talking on the phone, and then lunch is a good way to start the dating process. As far as what I would do for a first date, once we get that far, is to plan out a really fantastic evening. Just a really solid good first date that is respectful and full of laughter. Even if I had a Lear jet, I don't think I would fuel it up for Paris on the first date. Not to say that I don't like the idea of course.