Recently divorced after ninteen yrs of marriage. Don't really have a clue. Just looking to have some fun for now. Not looking for a commitment(marriage). I like the usual things like , movies, live music and dining out.....but its nice to stay home also. I am looking for someone to go to dinner or a movie....going by yourself stinks!

Update
Almost ready to give up; guess this is just a waste of time! I was just looking for friends, or so I thought. Really have only myself to blame. For a while I was part of the problem and not the solution. I felt that just having someone in my presence would be enough….well, not any longer! I wasn’t clear on what I was looking for, and that’s completely my fault. That being said, I don’t know if I will ever find what I’m looking for on this or any website.
To be honest I’m tired…. the constant introductions, tired of the games, etc, …. of the whole thing. Oh yes ladies, some of you play games also.
I now can say what I want…..I want everything! I want the gentle touches, the warm wet kisses, the longing to be with, the laughter, the needing (not just wanting), the smell of her perfume that I can’t get out of my nostrils and wouldn’t want too…..and so many others. In a sentence I miss being loved! Not sex…although that’s important…“Loved”…..the strange feeling of vulnerability knowing you can’t go on without this person being in your life. Caring so much for that person, knowing I would gladly lay my life down. I know sappy…. I felt like that before and I want to feel that again. Yes totally sold out to that person, but it has to be reciprocal.
The person I’m looking for would be intelligent, caring, fun, independent, spontaneous, and romantic and of course she would be attractive. Attractive, such a subjective word and there are some beautiful people that don’t have outward beauty. I won’t lie looks do matter, for me and for you. Beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. I’m average looking and have weight to lose, but I consider myself somewhat attractive, in a teddy bear sort of way. LOL…. I am making an effort to get back in shape and it’s a daily battle for me. I’m sure some of you can relate. Call me shallow and hypocritical but if I’m not attracted to you then there is no forcing the issue. The same could be said for you...come on….admit it! I’m only saying what we all think!
Well, guess I whined enough….. maybe I’ve been too honest but that’s me! I guess

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