....alright, I am not in a jacket that much, just take a picture whenever I am. I am honest, although everyone says it, I really don't lie, ever. I believe what comes around, goes around. I believe you will get whatever you deserve. I believe the only person to make one happy is themselves. I am happy when I make other people happy. I love my family and friends. I'm big on old folks and kidz. I love my dawg. I have a very secure job for over 20 years and unable to relocate out of area(well I know never say never, anyway, the right woman probably could get me to move to Alaska). I love the water, fresh water more than saltwater. I love the rain on lazy days. I love going places, and staying home. Although I don't need a woman to enjoy things in life, I want a woman. Does that sound desperate? Well, I don't believe I am anywhere near desperate. I really like making people laugh and smile, really(it makes me feel good). I really think that none of these words mean that much, unless they are what gets us to meet, I do believe that I am much more than my picture or words that I can write. I am only looking for forever. I got plenty of time, well, I think I do, and have alot of patience. I so much want to have some love in my heart from a trusting woman with no ex's chasing her. I do not believe there is any man that I would be scared about, and I am not really shy, but letting go of the rail and going on "an almost blind date" does not seem comfortable with me. I don't wish to be a serial dater(Lord knows one woman is enough). Sometimes I think no problem, be my "easy-going funny self", and maybe I might meet someone and they light up my heart and then I start acting stupid, or.............

It matters of course. Being comfortable for both should be the rule. I think a quick lunch on the deck of a restaurant at the ocean or river, maybe lunch. If the woman had something she would like to do then that would work on the first...........meeting. I also don't think the first time....WE...meet that it should be called a date. I think if it wasn't a date then it would be less pressure, conversation should be easier, and hopefully be a real good time. (The Eyes would give away if there were any sparks I think) Hopefully relax, laugh, and rub noses. (Well, hopefully have a good time and go crazy until we do plan our first date)