ok, ok, wow, what took you so long to show up? You knew I was out here somewhere waiting for you right? And deep in your heart of hearts you knew that eventually we would be together (Yeah, yeah... I know... it sure took us long enough... but as they say... anything WORTH having is worth waiting for) So now, have a seat and relax. Here's what God has done with my during the wait. I'm a good natured black professonal male looking for frienship. Great sense of humor, well read, good conversationalist and well groomed. I like plays, going to the movies, long rides in the country (I know that sounds corny so keep it to yourself), museums(yes that$5.00 my mom paid for me to go on those elementary school trips paid off), sports, traveling, dining out. I'm able to speak on a wide variety of topics . I'm VERY affectionate. I'm well rounded and down to earth... yet there's a side of me that's very intellectual WITHOUT being pretentious or stuffy. Able and comfortable navigating from the board room... to your family cook out (and I won't laugh at your crazy cousins... if promise not to laugh at mine). I Eat,sleep,and drink business most of my life.. but I don't let it consume me. I know how to back up.. and focus on family... and YOU.

Instead of doing the first date thing... let me tell you what I'm looking for. A woman with a good sense of humor and easy disposition. A woman who likes to travel, yet is just as comfortable snuggling at home. a woman, with a good sense of humor, intelligent, good conversationalist, comfortable staying at home as well as going out and about. Affectionate and caring. By this stage of the game... I think we've all attained enough wisdom for us to know that we shouldn't squander or TIME or EMOTIONS... on situations that will not yield the type of harvest that we desire. I'm not some nerdy computer guy that has trouble getting female companionship. That has never been a problem. HOWEVER.. today... I'm not about a girlfriend, or a companion... although that level of friendship can be nice.. .but today... It's about that woman who after a long day... whose hand i can hold... look deeply into her eyes.... and can clearly see.. that THIS woman is my BLESSING from GOD... and what else could I ask for. ( I have a PICTURE that I'll email to you upon request) I'm working out of California now (for the last 9 months)... but haven't decided if I'm gonna do this west coast thing permanently... or relocated... time will tell...lol


was born and raised in Jersey and lived there and Philly and NYC most of my life. Known as being a "conscious brother" I enjoy traveling, long rides in the country, flea markets, going to the movies as well as watching black and white films while cuddled up on the couch with you. I'm not a clingy type of brother. However, the woman in my life... is my bestfriend. I've long outgrown the hanging out with the guys thing. I would much rather prefer to hang out with my woman/wife. And hey..guess what? I'll even go shopping with you (sometimes) because I've figured out a secret remedy. I take a book, magazine, or ipod ( i can have my mind occupied while you shop)... and then i'm cool and won't go off because you're taking 3 hours just to select "one" pair of shoes (LOL). Took me years to come up with that strategy.. and it works. Ok.. on to pets. I'm a dog man. I enjoy working out.. but i don't impose my hobbies on my mate. The subject of working out can morph into dress size (hell of a seque huh?)... I'm not hung up on size or complexion... i'm into the woman.. i've learned a long time ago.. that the beautiful woman... is the woman who loves you.. Now I ask you.. what else could any SANE man want?