I've said this before but, If you like John Mayer, he has a song that says “something is missing, and I don’t know how to fix it” ...That pretty much sums it up for me too. I just know something is missing but I don’t know what it is… guess I’ll know her when I find her.

So I have temporarily come home to Mobile after my divorce… it’s been 23 years and WOW, a lot has changed… Everybody I know got old except me... LOL… Now is when you want to hear the serious stuff right??? OK. Well I love to laugh. I love to be around people, cook for friends, play music sometimes, try to grow tropical plants (that aren't supposed to grow here) I love home improvement stuff… sweat equity… you know? …painting new colors... building a deck and making it bigger and bigger... (My last one grew to 1300 sq ft over the years, that is the secret of not having to cut grass)

Being single really is a drag after a failed 20 year relationship… I need a pretty face to smile for me every day. I like independent type women who don't need a guy to make them complete… but it’s nice to be the guy that can…

I’m drawn to the water… I spend most weekends in Fairhope. Watching the sunsets, (see pics) and I usually sleep out in the pier house (see pic) it’s like a NYC loft with a Mobile bay view.

Just for fun… I don't know anything about astrology but I have recently discovered... Leo women, can find an intense, super-fun soulmate in a Sagittarius guy, (me). Sagittarius is fiery and passionate, just like Leo. We also have an incredibly strong chemistry that makes kissing fantastic! I'm sold!!! And… Looks like Aries may be a good match too!!! I also have a fondness for Nurses! ...brunettes turn my head faster than anything else…

The first date is a little more comfortable going out… We can stay home and cook together later… It would be great to be near the water. We will indulge ourselves in an elegant meal, a long conversation about our lives, family, interests and what brought us to on line dating… (Good Lord)

We’ll enjoy a perfect evening and maybe the cliché (perfect sunset) At last if the chemistry is there, the unavoidable first kiss! You have to love first kisses.

Life is so complicated; so many pressures, sources of anxiety, the nonstop rush to be here or there... I just want to have a night where time seems to stop for a while. No worries, no pressure, no phone, fax or Fed/Ex; just two people who have an opportunity to share some quiet time or perhaps start something new… Let’s do this thing!