I'm a Pisces so I am the epitome of the two fish swimming in opposite directions - torn between a devilish side and an angelic side. But seriously, I just moved to STL about 2 years ago. I would love to date someone who will show me all the great things about STL. I like to go to art openings, go wine tasting in Hermann (yes I have done a few things since I moved here), drink beer at Schlaffly, go on hikes, go ice skating or bowling or any other activity that sounds fun at the moment, play games at Dave and Buster's, go to the movies, etc... If you don't like doing everything I like doing - well that's cool - that is why I have friends. I like a bit of tv, but I never let it rule my life. I don't ever want to date another guy who wants to watch sports 24/7. Live life - don't watch it on tv! Everything in moderation. Drink a little, work out a little, work a little, play a little - but please not any one thing tooooo much. I want to meet someone who is intelligent, has a good job, works out a bit, maybe plays some kind of sport on the side, likes to have fun, is not too passive but not too aggressive either. A guy who is not intimidated by my brilliance. jk. But seriously you need to appreciate the fact that I am an attractive, successful woman or we will never have a good time together. If you prefer blond bimbos then I am not your lady.

I kind of think a first date should be coffee or a drink. Dating online is different than other forms of dating. The first date is really just to see if we have any chemistry. I really don't relish wasting billions of hours online chatting with a guy just to find out when we meet we have no chemistry! So I prefer to chat on a more minor scale, meet for a short drink/coffee, and then see where things go.