Ok, first of all.... my Serious Member status was awarded to me by the lovely people at POF, as a free trial, not quite sure of those benefits - but i'm good with how things were/are :) I did NOT sign up for that.. lol.
I am a very fun, energetic

, nutty, outgoing, crazy, feisty, silly, SOMETIMES ditzy.. lol, girlie girl who doesn't mind getting dirty. :) I'd like to think I have a great personality and an even better sense of humor, and would like my man to have the same. They definitely have to have the greatest sense of humor-make me laugh, awesome personality, quick witted, be outgoing, spontaneous (i love 'GOOD' surprises!) And most importantly - must either HAVE or LOVE children and understand how life works when they're in it :) Family oriented is an absolute plus :)
I have a 5 yr old little girl who is my world (I know every parent says that, but we wouldn't have it any other way) and my first priority. :)
One thing that stands out about me amongst most others is that I DO love to get all dolled up, but I am truly a meat and potatoes, jeans and t-shirt (and FLIP FLOPS, lol) kind of girl :)
As far as what I'm looking for - whatever comes of it! Just meeting new people, exploring the 'ocean', so to speak. Eventually, I want to be in a loving relationship and have a family once again :) Guess it will hit me when I least expect it - so I've heard, lol.
Something very casual and comfortable, nothing to seem like an old fashioned 'first date'. Probably not so much up for that 'candlelit dinner at your place' the first night, haha.. maybe the second! And a movie?.. Seriously, is this your first time? LOL