I am someone who doesn't like to sweat the small stuff. I know the only person I can change is myself and talking usually doesn't change anyone......that was a tough lesson to learn lol! I love to cook and hang out with good fun people. I don't have time or patience for negativity in my life. I believe we are here to grow and learn so that we can enjoy our life more and more. I have learned alot in my 40 years, mostly in the last five, and would like to meet more people who understand the value of growth and maturity :)

I have been on this site long enough to get a taste of the new ways of dating :( If you are looking for a text buddy or text sex........I wish you luck but I am not interested. Looking to meet and or date a real man who will actually ask a women out on a date...... ya know like in the olden days

I don't usually email first, so if you see that I viewed you and didn't email.....that doesn't mean I didn't like what I read/saw. I believe it works better when a man approaches a women........I didn't write the rules just try to live by them.......sometimes

I would prefer a first date to be as comfortable as possible. Meeting for coffee, a drink or something clever would be great!