In a nutshell... I am here to find the man I hope to be with for the rest of my life. Yeah, I'm looking for longterm. I'm not looking to hook up or be 'friends with benefits' (there are other sites for those things - move along if that's what you want). With me, you will find, companionship, trust, love, laughter, an easy -going personality, minimal baggage (I think might have one, very small carry-on, but we can shove it under our seats lol)I take care of myself, like adventures, traveling, being at home or out on the town. I have two awesome kids - they're great people. I like all kinds of music but I stay away from rap, hip hop and classic rock (60's, 70's - sorry). I love sports of all kinds and I love to listen to live music but I'm not much of a dancer... seriously - I'm a woman who doesn't really like to dance. I hate debating issues (politics, religion, war, etc) because it always raises blood pressure. If you like or dislike something, that's fine. I won't try to change your mind as long as you let me have my opinions and don't try to change mine. A few 'must haves' - non smoker, be in control of your future, great smile, sense of humor, strong hands, compassion, passion, and above all - committment. My goal - to find the yin to my yang, the key to my lock, the peanut butter to my jelly... you get the idea :)

Coffee or a soda - just something informal with the chance to talk and see if there is a spark. "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."