Hi..I am a self employed architect..divorced..financially secure.. my 10yo son lives with his mom..and he is my biggest joy in life..
I am a hopeless romantic..good communicator..trusting..honest...and loyal (a 1 woman man)...very spontaneous...and love to laugh...especially at myself..
Looking for that special lady that will ignite that spark...that feeling of wanting to just hug her and kiss her whenever I see her...doing things for no reason for her,,just to let her know..I was thinking of her..
My partner would be slender or physically fit..(dont mean that to sound shallow..but its my comfort zone..Im 5-9..160..good shape)..40ish-50ish.(age not important...its all attitude)...with a young heart..Someone that can go from sweats an sneakers..to dress and heels in a moments notice...and back again.(i enjoy being spontaneous).

Not interested in overachievers...I dont need to participate in every endeavor known to mankind....nor do I need to see every country on the globe..I do enjoy travel and activities...but cherish down time as well
I have many interests from dining out..dancing...shopping...golf...plays...movies...concerts...museums....art shows..performing arts..walks on the beach...working out..watching the sunrise/sunset...little cafes...spontaneous getaways... traveling...casino trips..NYC at all times...to cooking..watching a movie and snuggling up to watch it..and so on...
I have a great sense of humor...love to laugh..especially at myself and enjoy being silly at times...enjoy sarcasm both giving and receiving..
Any partner in my life would have to enjoy being romanced...held and kissed and enjoy attention..(without smothering..we all need space).Communication is the key...followed by trust and loyalty/honesty..
I have had many luxuries in life (and still can)....but realize that its just "stuff" and means nothing (OK ..some are nice..lol)...There is no drama in my life and any baggage I carry fits in an overnight bag (not a trunk)..
I am 100% real..Please be the same..soooo much more to say...Lets chat if it seems right up to this point...Life is a funny thing and maybe a response from you starts what could be the beginning of something special....
PS.....you dont need to live in my backyard (although it would be nice)..I dont consider a 50-75 mile trip a long distance relationship.(especially if it feels right)..thats still close enough for me for those spontaneous moments...Take a chance ...go fishing:.you may find a keeper..lol..
PSS..real age is 54 not 51.

Its more like a first meet not a date...that would be decided after speaking with you,,
There are too many options in my mind...if we get there..would probably be low key..just a place to sit and chat a bit...a snack at a small cafe..sunday brunch..cup of coffee and walk around...ice-cream and a park bench...definitely not a loud place...just something simple..
I'll save the spontaneous weekend in the Bahamas for the second date..(humor ..what a great thing..lol)