I am at the point in my life when my children are out on their own, I work hard and I want to enjoy the rest of my life.

Looking for a man who will pamper and spoil me as I intend to do to him. I have always spoiled my children and now my Grandchildren...I would like some special attention now.

My line here about wanting to be pampered and spoiled seems to have given alot of men the wrong idea. I do NOT mean spoiled with gifts, etc. I mean that kiss on the cheek when unexpected, a neck massage when you have had a hard day, holding hands ..whenever (watching TV, walking, just sitting together). Emails during the day to let your partner know they are on your mind, and a little note in a pocket saying "I LOVE YOU" I have had "Gifts" but no loving contact or little "Love Notes". I can't speak for others, but, FREE pampering/spoiling is most important in todays world. Also, I guess any man who took my comment the wrong way is definitely not what I am looking for in a relationship.

I am tired of playing games on these sites, I don't have time for it. Please do not respond without a CURRENT picture and please don't lie to me, it always comes out later and it's just time wasted.

I promise my pictures are recent and I will not lie to you. THIS, is very important to me. It should be to anyone looking to start a real and lasting relationship, like I am.


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