Caring, considerate, thoughtful, reliable, honest, loyal are words that I hope describe me Hi my name is Jay, I live in Northampton which for those who don't know is pretty much bang in the centre of England. I'm 38, generally a happy go lucky guy and although I'm quite busy with work I am trying to find someone to spend my free time with.

I have my own house, a reliable (if not the best looking) car, a good job and although I'm a bit on the large side am 100% healthy and fit. I love days out, I love nights in and I love life in general, I always try to be happy and enthusiastic about everything I do and I have what I consider to be a truly excellent sense of humour