I'm curious, creative, people oriented and need both alone time and time with others. I'm looking for someone creative, intelligent, someone who cares about and has empathy for others. I'm passionate about music and creative expression, and hope to find someone of like passion. I'm making a good living but don't manage money as well as I would like... but I am willing to be trained in that area of my life. Don't like to cook but would love to cook with someone... again I'm trainable..

I am looking for a communicator.. someone who doesn't flee conflict. I'm very mellow.. a slow boil... but left unattended could boil over and make a big mess. Dishonesty loses my trust, and trust once lost is almost impossible to regain. I want someone who will allow me freedom to follow my dreams, and will encourage them, and who needs me to support them in like manner. I hope for someone more disciplined then myself, whom I can learn from. Someone to wake up with and snuggle with, and who I can cherish with my whole being, and who will also cherish me in like manner.

I do ask a lot. I'm no longer willing to settle. Time is flying by at an alarming rate and I have little to waste. My standards are high, but have nothing to do with looks or wealth. Most importantly I'm looking for a spiritual man. A Christian who loves humanity as God loves us. Someone who doesn't judge others, but leaves that up to our Father in Heaven.

I ask a lot.... but I give everything I have..

First dates should be casual and non pressured for both parties. Anything outdoors, a venue where you can talk and get a sense of the person you are meeting. Coffee, picnic... sidewalk cafe, the beach. On the water... on horseback :)