Everyone keeps saying I want someone "real" or honest. Well, it’s here knocking are you going to run or welcome it? When you put it to someone like you are about to read they don't always like it but this is what it is.

I have been on this site on and off for about a year and see a lot of the same people. I am not sure if they are afraid to take a chance or what but even when you attempt to strike up a conversation its almost like they can't relate or just don't want to put forth the effort. A lot of these singles have no personality, don't know there self, or can't even describe them self but yet they want to get to know someone else, bit of advice, get to know yourself first. You can tell all of this by looking at their profile they don't want to put the effort in on it so, why would they put effort in on anything else in life? Headings like please change my mind about men or prove your different, sounds like a disaster before you even start. Females with booze in their hand in every pic, why would you present yourself that way and then say I am looking for a good guy. Is that how you would act if I asked you to meet my family? I hope not so, why would you act like that when you could be meeting your potential boyfriend or husband? Some are like I can't believe I am here, what better place you can weed out all the ones that are not for you. Then there like, well you never know who you are meeting but yet they'll take home a one night stand from the bar they don't know so, you tell me which one is safer. I am also not sure why people put pics of other men kissing them (other than family) on their profile, not cute. It is difficult for me to also understand why women put their child all over there profile, I want to get to know you and I know your child is important to you and you are proud of them but that should go without mentioning in a relationship aspect. I can only speak for myself when I say this but my son does not meet women I date only if I get that involved with them. My son is not a pawn or a tool; I care deeply about his upbringing. God forbid you take control of your own life, have some will power. The one's that think I am to young, age is a state of mind and my life experiences say otherwise. Learn to think on the wire. You might think I am being tough on people but a lot of individuals in my generation are push over’s and I chose to stand my ground but I do so with an open mind.

Hello, my name is, Brandon. I grew up in a small town but I am not into others business and I have what I believe is a good/fair heart. I would like to find an active person such as myself. I like to do about anything and always open to new things of course. My strongest points of interest would have to be traveling and art. However, I also enjoy Architecture and Astrology but don't get it confused with Astronomy. The pictures of me with my shirt off are nothing more than a display of self respect, I have worked hard for this little body and I should be proud of it. I take pride in what I build or create and my flesh is something I have put a decent amount of time into. I do not have a big ego nor am I c o c k y, If anything I consider myself to be humble. So, please don't take these pics the wrong way, thank you. All this ink can be intimidating to some females but there is no need to fear me if you take the time to hear me. I am a man that is willing to compromise, I appreciate people, and I honor loyalty. I appreciate life and live for the day but not like it’s my last. I am not exactly sure what I want but more important I know what I don't want. I am responsible but I have a bit of a bad boy image, I just like to keep it interesting. I like to play fight, wrestle, and just have fun. Still know how to party hard every now and again but prefer not to let it over shine me. One thing about meeting someone online is you can't read their body language, how a person handles them self is important to me. Rather than try to explain too much about how I am or who I am, I would like to invite you to form your own opinion. I hope this has attracted your attention and sparked an interest.

I am looking for a nice girl to hang out with, watch movies, walks, bike rides, and the beach, whatever sounds fun or amusing. I don't want a stuck up girl but must have some class. I like a woman that can put some jogging pants on, throw her hair up, and head out the door. The type that doesn't feel she needs to impress everyone all the time. I am open to older women because they tend to be more mature, up to 30. A playful girl with an outgoing attitude is nice because I can be shy but I also like shy women too. I tend to like a girl with short or shorter hair and I also like a girl with nice feet, not in a weird way but everyone has got the one thing they take notice of. I can accept any fault you may have but once you lie to me I don't want to hear anything else you have to say.

P.S. I don't like the fact every girl I try to be nice to thinks I want to sleep with them, get over yourself that's not the case. I am not trying to be rude about it just forward, I guess I was blessed with good communication skills. Furthermore, I think all these little girls that are just on here to get a little attention should take it elsewhere, they’re wasting space for individuals/adults that really converse and network. Thank you, for viewing my profile.

Open your mind and start to live :)

My two favorite quotes:

"Whatever the mind of man can conceive, can be achieved"

"Without breakdowns, there can be no breakthroughs"

-------------------Some Men--------------------
----------------are like apples----------------
------------on trees. The best ones------------
----------are at the top of the tree.----------
----------The women don’t want to reach--------
-------for the good ones because they ---------
-----are afraid of falling and getting hurt.---
----Instead, they just get the rotten apples---
-----from the ground that aren't as good, -----
----but easy. So the apples at the top think----
-----something is wrong with them, when in-----
------reality, they're amazing. They just-------
-------have to wait for the right woman to-------
-------- come along, the one who's-------------
----------- brave enough to--------------------
-----------------climb all----------------------
----------------- the way----------------------
-----------------to the top--------------------
--------------- of the tree.-------------------

Open to anything fun. Spontaneous!