DAMN POF took away instant messages..... If you;d liek to chat...instant msg me on Yahoo as leisurekc.

I would describe myself as laid back and easy going, down to earth, compassionate, witty, kind. Looking for someone as a friend first and foremost. It's more about your attitude towards life than it anything else. We can all choose how it is that we want to approach life and deal with what it hands us.

Not into going to bars, reminds me too much of peacocks and roosters strutting around and not sure if the thing I want in common with someone is beer goggles. I don't have a problem with going out for drinks and listening to live music. Another pet peeve is people that don't take the time to say please or thank you or respond to an introduction email. It's really not that much effort to say I'm seeing someone or thanks, but no thanks.

Best Quote I;ve Seen Lately : We aren;t human beings going thru a spititual world, we are spiritual beings going thru a human world.

First meetings are probably the most difficult. It boils down to is there any chemistry and do you want to find out more about this other person. Conversation, try an array of jokes to explore where each others humor lies. Later dates can be dinner grilled at home or out, hanging out together either in silence on the couch or a conversation, it doesnt always have to be verbal non-stop nervous chatter.