I'm 42 single with no children. I've never really felt I needed children to make my life complete. I guess it all depends on what happens in the future. I seem to always seek out a spiritual bond in all relationships. Finding someone special is very important to me. The physical part has never been problem for me. I love to learn and grow from the experiences I share with others. I enjoy sports and just about everthing. I love being laid back and sharing the comfort of the company of others. I keep a select group of friends that know me inside and out. I'm looking to
grow outside of myself and be a part of an adventure of the soul. I feel I'm at a crossroads in my life and I am looking for something more than just the ordinary.
"Open" is probably the best way to describe my attitude in life now. There is more to life than just money and security. I don't feel time slipping away or any clock ticking, but there is a nagging feeling that something is missing, or I'm missing out on something. Do we ever really know if were doing what we're supposed to or meant to? Can you tell God plays a big part in my life? Although I'll be the first to admit I'm not a regular church-goer- his presence is never far from me.

On the first date, compatibilty is the first thing I try to feel. Is there a connection when two people are on their guard? The best thing that can come from a first date is a second date. I guess that dinner and a movie would be what I would invision as an ideal first date. When things go well there is always curiosity to which I am open. My friends are always available, they reflect a good part of my nature and including them is always a possibility. This of course is what I see as an ideal first date. But, I realize what I want isn't always what's best. I like to keep things as open as possible. This isn't about me as much as it is about us...