I am looking to have quality time. From going to movies, dinners, short vacations, concerts, picnics,parties to cooking together, laughing and sharing our concerns. I hope it develops to a long term nice, romantic ,exclusive relationship.
Your best qualities : considerate, caring ,funny , honest, fair and responsible.
If your idea of "talking things over" is "I don't want to talk about it" or "My way or the highway" , I would rather not waste your time and mine, as it seems I do not have any tolerance for the narcissistic boy that poses as a man.
If your idea of "being there" means "only when is convenient for you", that is THE deal breaker.
My best traits : compassionate, loyal
My negative traits : holding people to their word, I don't tolerate or enable bad behaviors
Turned off by : selfish, unreliable, manipulative, unfair, immature and entitled people , and the pushy type.
If sex is your only goal, you will waste your time with me, as I take all the time I need to feel emotionally safe with a man, prior to physical intimacy. One night stand and casual things, not my definition of classy nor fulfillment.
Qualities that I am looking in a man : honest, thoughtful, funny, responsible,fair,accountable, want to be involved with children in sport practices and guys stuff,open,emotionally available,romantic, able to perform and please a woman sexually, loyal and someone that"walks the talk".
Me - short and sweet, real and with lots of qualities, you - a gentleman ,that I can count on when life gets difficult, count on to be there, supportive,not solve my problems, but being sympathetic ,preferable not taller than 6.0 feet, caucasian . I am content with my life as a single woman and a man can only complement my existing life and allow me to experience new things.
I am a single mother ,I volunteer in school,I have a busy schedule, yet I manage to make time to enjoy things in life. I don't have free time, I make time for things that I want to do.
I was asked many times why am I single? The past couple of years, I focused on career and motherhood.
I do prefer a man to have initiative . I love it when the man surprises me with things to do together. I have never felt good telling a man where to take me. I guess, I still like very much the traditional roles and old-fashioned courtship.

Simple.Short.Coffee. Walk in a park. Book store.

Male
Age between 28 and 45
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married