where should i start well I'm tired of doing the same thing weekend after weekend and expecting a different result so its time for something new, and to be honest have just been feeling as if something is missing. I am a fairly complicated man sometimes, been one side of the track to the other and back. What i mean by that is i was "the nice guy"(aka friend) tried being a "real man" I.e. a d*** and a bad boy doing bad things, learned my lessen didnt like how made me feel and am now back to being "the nice guy" but with an edge Muahahahhaha. Done a lot of different things for work and still looking for that thing i really excel at and that i can be passionate about, as i am a passionate person. So i have gone back to school and started classes in the September. I just started going to the gym, but still enjoy going out and doing things outside and do keep active. I Love skiing and snowboarding used to teach it in fact children's programs. Love listening and dancing to good music and i like most genres except country and gansta rap. I am very affectionate and love to cuddle up and watch movies. Also I Need to find more friends who want to do things outdoors, and am so tired of the girls i meet at bars who are either already taken, live in another city, or just not what i'm looking for. But i am sure having fun until i find it, and laughing and surrounding myself with funny and fun people is a big part of that.

That's enough about me i guess now what am i looking for, well I'm getting to old for games so looking for just a straight up girl who likes to have fun and laugh i believe about being above bored and have found honesty is the best policy and its not just a good line. In fact it has gotten me into trouble more then once but is better in the long run. I need a girl who is as smart as i think i am, someone who can hold my attention but not just a pretty face, and also takes care of themselves physically by that i mean is fit and active. I surround myself with people who make me smile and laugh, laughter is by far the most important thing so you have to be funny or at least think i am.(ahaha). I need someone moving forward, with goals and dreams. I need someone who wants to spend as much time with me as i want to spend time with them. But most of all I'm looking for someone who i feel comfortable and can talk to about anything, because I've had that before and i know that i want that. On the rest i'm negotiable.

I haven't got life figured out but i sure do like to live it, and try to make the best of every situation even if all i get is a good story and a few laughs. Life's to short to live it other peoples way or for others. I'm looking for someone to share my life with as a partner. However as long as there's a smile on our faces who cares though really, life should be fun and i plan on spending as much time as i can enjoying it with a smile on my face.

I'm just throwing it out there if you don't like it toss it back i don't mind. there are plenty of fish in the sea. hahahhah wow that was so corny had to be done though

If you feed your mind as often as you feed your stomach, then you'll never have to worry about feeding your stomach or a roof over your head or clothes on your back.
-Albert Einstein

Life is what happens as you live with the wounds.Life is not a matter of getting the wounds out of the way so that you can finally live. Wounds are never permanently erased. We are fragile beings, and some days we break all over again.
-Geneen Roth
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For a fist date lets see well that would depend on the girl i think and until i know you a bit better hard to decide what you might like so dinner and a movie is always a good option that way you get to know each other a little. I have also found tourist in your home town to be a lot of fun so that's an idea. but really it doesn't matter where you are if your felling it your felling it if your not your just not.